The Other Side of Things

Empathy. It is not something that only other people have. It is something that we all have, and when we choose a clueless demeanor over what we know needs to happen, this is when we find that some of us have it, and others of us do, too, but are too scared to use it.

“Rox – I need to know what I can do to help my girlfriend “get it” when it comes to things that have nothing to do with her, everything to do with me, that hurt me, and that she is not aware that she is, in part, a gigantic reason for it…”

These are the emails which make my blood boil, because, and this is going back to that old school of thought blog – a lot of us “get it” in terms of empathy, and then there are others who, for the life of them, cannot see past themselves in order to figure out what the hell someone else, or maybe a few someone elses, are trippin’ about.

Alright…so maybe saying that they make my blood boil is not really the absolute truth, but I will say that they piss me off, a lot, and it is because there are a LOT of people on this planet who still, for the very life of them, CANNOT see past what they want from their own thoughts and their own lives and who also expect people to do as they want without doing anything in return, and that is not okay. It ain’t okay for a few reasons, with the biggest one being that at some point in time in all of our lives we have GOT TO accept the kuleana that comes with who we each are.

Women are HORRIBLE at this

I said it, so deal with it, and no, I am not trying make a big giant stink about anything other than the idea that we are all able to disappoint other people. I am saying that women, for such a long, long time now, have been conditioned to think that every ill in the world is due to some man in our lives who is not thinking like we think. Ummm….DUH…they are GUYS, ladies, and they cannot, will not ever be able to, never have to think like we do. While this does not take away from the empathetic part of things, where hell yes it is nice when the guys make an effort toward understanding that we can see them, at least a few of them, it makes it possible for us  to see them as actual human beings. 

LADIES! Y’all need to knock your crap off and realize that what you want from the guys is what you deserve, but we, ourselves, are NOT perfect, and to think that we are the ones who are supposed to be emotionally inclined in comparison to the guys? Well, you are making us all look like man hating harpies, and it is not cool. It is not cool because all of our collective lives we all have wanted “the perfect mate,” and in that energy we have come to the conclusion that whatever it was that the previous generations were all about, that we, too, are also like that.

No we aren’t. We aren’t because a few of those moms from the generation before ours took time to make sure that all of us knows this. It is unfortunate that while a lot of us understood it and learned it, there are still way too many of us who think that if something is wrong in the world of women, that it is a man’s fault. I have to say hell no, ladies, you are wrong. It is your fault. How dare you give away our power like that and expect the rest of the world to take us as seriously as you want everyone to think you are taking yourselves.

This is not giving us, as a collective whole, the credit that we deserve from all the growth we have suffered through. If you want them to take notice, then you have to be and behave as all who and what you think you are.  If you want the right guy, then you have to stop trying to either turn the wrong one into the right one, or, you have to take a long and scrutinizing look at yourself and wonder why it is that you are not compelled, through Love, to see to it that the person who is supposedly the one who makes you swoon is at least heard.

Yet, it seems, we cannot do that. It seems like we have the very nerve to ask that they all change for us, and rarely does it happen, at least in the manner that I am emailed, by these very same guy-people who a lot of women swear are the ones who are really confused. I would like to know, ladies, when it was that you were so damned perfect, that when your own tears fell and you were hurt, that you did not want your man to be there to soothe you? I want to know, ladies, when it was that when you hurt this person, that somehow, because you are female, you have a pass to pretend to be perfect, even when you KNOW that you are not?

I want to know, really…do you know that you are NOT perfect?

I want to know which unenlightened woman chose to get back at her man for being a man about things, meaning that men, a lot of them, have no clue what it is that we really want from them, and we are the very ones who refuse them this little bit of information. Yeah yeah…I know…there are a whole lot of us who DO tell them what we want, and for the most part, it made things better, or at least how they need to be versus how our white-horse-riding-prince-with-a-trust-fund idealism (and mothers…lets not forget about them) told us it IS.  And hell no – it DOES NOT COUNT when only ONE OF YOU wants to keep the relationship, because at that point you are totally doing what you are not supposed to be doing, which is enforcing your will onto someone else, which makes it so that you are IMPEDING THEIR FREE WILL !!! UGH !

And really, no one knows what the hell they are getting, from anyone, regardless of who they are, who we want them to be, what we expect from them versus what it is that we really and truly need from them. When was it that men were the purveyors of things so unsavory? When was it that we all got angry for these people telling us who we are and why do we think and believe that the changes in our collective thinking about what a man’s position in life is, regarding a woman, did not and somehow DO not apply to us in that same manner where men are concerned? 

Remind me again when it was that we were able to walk on water whilst looking down on what a whole lot of women only see as yet another tool in their chest of things needed (but only WHEN needed) ? This is a crock of crap, really.  This needs to be one of those things that we, as a female collective whole, NEED to examine. We need to think about it in terms of our sons, our brothers, our friends, and we need to see them as equal to us rather than only there to repair the house, the car, open jar lids and be our teddy bears when we need them to be.

If this is the sort of relationship that any woman is in, where she has all the power, and she is in control, then guys, you need to… NEED to get the hell outta dodge, right now, because what WILL ultimately happen is that you will start losing friends, will not be able to leave without Mommy-Girl’s permission, will be the one who is blamed for every little ailment on the planet, and most of all, you WILL BE hopelessly miserable, and why?

Because, you will not be allowed to be the You who you really are, and this is not only about women who like to cut men off at the guava level, but all of us. There are a lot of men who are included in this, who think that without them telling the “little woman” that she is wrong, that she cannot think, that who she is is nothing without him, that she is worthless, that she is not valued by anyone at all, not even her parents- yeah,  if this is you, or even remotely sounds like you and these things are in your ears a lot, it is time to think, not about how to change them, but about what it is that you really want. 

NO one…not a man, not a woman, is beholden to anyone else’s ideals. It could be something online, something that is not tangible anywhere else than on the Astral plane…when we expect more from other people than we are willing to give, and those other people respond to us in a negative manner, it is NOT TIME to check them, because the reality is that those people who just step away are NOT who is in need of people needing to check themselves long before they wreck themselves. 

NO one…not a man, not a woman, is going to take the place of the lessons at hand that are NOT meant for the people who we are judging, who we are badgering, who we are trying to enrage – because really, no one neither needs anyone momming or daddying them, namely NOT if they are able to wake up in the morning, all on their own, without having to be told that the day has started and that, unless you are Motley Crue, life has begun for the day so could we please wake up and NOT behave as though we are the reigning princess of dreamland…because other than Europe and in Disney films, that is the ONLY PLACE where the princess gets to be the princess. Eventually, even the princess will wake up one day to be queen, and unfortunately for the princess type thinking women of the world, it is never the princess who is ruling, because that is ONLY the queen’s job.

And I promise you that it is mighty nice being the queen….

Empathy is not an option, but a requirement

When speaking in terms of men and women and how we do not truly know each other until we know each other and are willing to be open to accepting them all as they are, we are not any better than they are, no matter what. If we, and I am talking about ALL of us, cannot see past what we each want, what we each expect, and everything in any relationship is always only about our very damned selfish selves, then we do not deserve anything better or more than what we already have, particularly if the guy involved is already a prince without the trust fund. The person who emailed me is a very young man, and one who I have been working with for some time now, over the women he allows into his life. I cannot be the one to mom him and tell him what he needs. I cannot be who is the one who is responsible for how he feels, and the beautiful part about this is that this young man takes to heart what it is that a woman better than twice his years tells him.

On his girlfriend’s part, though…and this is to any woman who will think that she can be everything to any man at all…sweetheart – it ain’t gonna work out, and hell yes, I am calling out the one particular woman who, in this case, is very much the one who is the catalyst in all of this garbage. Not all of us is wealthy, and not all of us have at our behest the things that you do. This is a girl who has no empathy, and she should, but is choosing otherwise. I could go on and on, but won’t. The kid who initially wrote that email is reading this, and because he needs at least one woman who is not his mama telling him that he is doing nothing wrong in choosing to be who he is and more, to grow at his pace, and not hers, I am here telling ALL OF US to just ferakin’ chill already. Let people be who they are and worry about your damned selves already because no one else will until you start doing it for yourself. 

A last thought

This writing is not only applicable to clueless women, but also to clueless men who seem to believe that they own the woman who they say they love. You do not own her, just like she does not own you, and the thing is that your own fathers are the ones who have made an entire generation NOT able to understand what the women of today are all about. Let me put it to ya like this, fellas….whatever it was that your mom needed emotionally, your woman needs that, but what your woman does not need is you to be the one who thinks that he needs to father her. That is the fastest way to make her leave you. And when she does not respond the way that your daddy told you all women would, DO NOT take it upon your fucking sorry selves to try to change her. She is who she is and is perfect in her imperfections.

Be mindful of it when you choose to compare her to your mom, because that is just weird, really. Be careful of who she is, because if you really know who she is, you will also know that there are a whole lot of other men who also know who she is and believe it when I tell you guys that no matter how much she loves you, if she is strong in herself, she also loves herself, and really, she will not put up with your bullshit, at all. In fact, if she finds out that you are as weak as you pretend not to be, you will find out exactly which of your friends is the right kind of guy and the right kind of guy is the kind of guy who “gets it” and if you don’t get it, then you better learn to, because really…

…your boys…they are tellin’ you the truth when they tell you that somehow, you won the chick lottery…

‘Auhea wale ana ‘oe….pay attention, ’cause if you don’t, it is almost a given and a guarantee that in the future, sooner than later, someone will…and it will likely not be you… and this applies to both genders, not only the guys ! 

We are not perfect, not one of us, and we all need to check ourselves before we wreck ourselves…some of us way more than others.

I said it…deal with it…

I LOVE YOU ALL !

ROX

 

Focusing

Seeing through anything at all requires thought and a better, not newer way of learning to focus that is anyone else’s but our own…

Lately, the majority of us has felt like we just cannot see anything good in anything at all, and it is not your fault that you feel this way if you do. All the happy, sappy hippie guru type people who tell us to basically ignore the bad and focus only on the good…well, they have it sort of right. What is not exactly right is that it takes a bit of self-taught discipline in order for us to stop focusing on the bad, meaning that it also takes a lot of patience in order to deal with just the learning part of this focusing thing.

This focusing thing

While it is that I am technically an ordained minister, and while it is that at the very heart of me, my Hawaiian Shamanic roots have never really allowed me to stray far from the thought that everything in existence was first a focused thought.  Yet, there is that part of me that is science geek, that is the person who wants to know how it was that Spirit engineered all that She has to this point, and how it is that we are the mechanics who make all of it work, at least for the most part.

It is the focusing thing that has a lot of folks stumped. This is because forever already we have been focusing on what is someone else’s version of “right and upstanding” and have never really bothered to think outside of that accepted norm of thought.  Think about everything that you have done to this point, and I AM talking only about readers who are in the United States, and think about how “rank and file” it was while you were in elementary school, middle school, high school and even college. Then when you were ready to embark on your trade, you went through more of this trained thinking set out by other people who, at this point in history, are either already long gone (and the new guys in their place have done nothing to change the program to meet the current level of creativity), and for the most part, these examples of institutionalized thinking are no longer applicable to the new and evolved thinking of the masses.

We are taught from a young age to think how the machine of commerce wants us to, and while it might seem like the odds are stacked squarely against us all to fail, the truth is that we can teach ourselves to think differently so that we can focus on things that are applicable to ourselves as well as the “machine.” The “machine” is not just us, ourselves, on a singular level, but us, as a whole. Spirit engineered this life, and we are both the machine and the mechanic in terms of how things get done. The way that things begin to get done is the thought, and then after that comes, or at least it should, the focus.

Focus, and why we are so, so bad at it

Ever wondered why it is that some people would get mad at the fish when it is expected to climb a tree and it can’t? (Einstein quote…gotta google it…) Ever wondered why it is that people are so miserably unhappy with the job they have, or maybe the people who they hang with, or even the family they have created and are miserable in?

The answer is simple – if we likened ourselves to Einstein’s fish trying to climb trees, we see that (1) fish can’t climb trees and (2) we are not fish. Humans can climb trees, but each of us will climb the same tree differently than everyone else or anyone else will. Sure, the mechanics of it are the same, but the people acting out the mechanics are different. If you thought about it long enough, and I know that not all of us will have had the same kinds of teachers when we were in elementary to high school, each of us had one class that was particularly challenging. For me it was algebra.

Think back to those days, and recall how confused you were then about what it was that was being explained to you in what seemed like a foreign language. The issue was not now, nor was it then, and neither will it ever be that you cannot “do” the thing that is being shown to you, but that your specific understanding of that thing is not clear enough to you, and that is not and was not your fault.

It is not your fault that you were not able to understand the way that the teacher taught what it was that they were teaching and that you had a hard time grasping. I am the worst with algebra, but it was my friend, Kim, who reminded me that “it is all the same math. You just have to look at it from what your understanding of it is and forget what it was that your professor told you from her perspective…”

As easy as I make this focusing thing sound, it is not that simple. Really. It takes work to unlearn what you have learned, because what you have learned does not help your understanding of things. This is because all of our lives we have been taught what we have been learning from the point of view of someone else’s understanding of things. My friend Kim knew that the reason I was not able to understand all of these algebraic signs and symbols was because my mind cannot comprehend them in the manner that they were presented, and at the time they were presented is also the time they were being taught.

This is a whole lot of sorting out and figuring out of things, and when a person is not able to first settle into one thing, it makes it hard for said same person to focus on the next step. My opinion of the current state of the educational system, at least in the state of California, is that it is robbing a whole legion of kids of their own method of learning by trying hard to make all of their little thought processes fit into a nice canned-ham type of learning, where one size fits all. The truth is that we do not all learn any other way or better than when we do so from our own understanding of things.

I have issues with this method of teaching because it does not address properly the way that each person thinks. We have a left and a right brain and we have always only been taught to utilize the left side (logic) and forget about the right side (creativity) and have been told, forever, that this is just the way things are and that we are to conform to a set standard and not think with our whole brain. This is what robs us all of the childlike tendency to daydream, to have goals that are not set up in our heads like we are somehow running a race that only we are in. We have competed with ourselves, as well as everyone else, and for the life of us, it seems that there are a lot of us still who cannot stop running in the manner that is a lab rat in a maze…according to someone else’s design.

Human beings were created with the amazing ability to create. We feel like we are stifled right now, and we have felt this way for generations, and in my opinion it is because there was a set standard back in the day for the populace to accept. We are not accepting those outdated norms and the reason things seem to be such a cluster-fuck is because we know that we can think, and we know that from those thoughts the creation of our lives is born, but we are not able to think outside of the way that we were manipulated into believing was the only way.

The Point

The point is that what it is that we have learned to focus on can be changed and we can teach ourselves to focus on what we need to focus on rather than only what we have been told needs our focus. We need focus when we are at our jobs, and we need focus when we are doing things that we like doing, and we need focus in order, really, to get anything done. The way we have been conditioned through our time in school is what brings us to this point where we wonder why it is that we have a hard time “getting it” in terms of our very selves.

The Self is who we each are. We are not these bodies. We are not our jobs. We are not what we have been told we are. Instead, we are each the culmination of focused thought, by both our parents and the Mother Goddess. If it is that our parents can have a focused thought and one that created another human life, we, also, are able to do this same thing, not only when it comes to procreation, but with anything at all.

It requires focus.

Our Focus

Each person’s outlook on life at any given time is a glimpse into their inner world. Where it is that they think is also where it is that they live, and where we each live internally is forever. Now, we can think of our “forever” as being the most awful time we will ever have (because we are focused on having an awful time) or we can think of our daily lives as stepping stones that create the path called “Our Lives.” I say a lot about the energy behind words, and in this case, you can see here, again, where it is that there is a specific energy behind the word “forever” and how we are  focusing our energies on that word.

Think about all the times that you have used the word “forever” and in the context which is was used and you can see why it is that for some people it is a good thing and others, not so much. In that same manner, the energy that was present for you when you were learning algebra is still there. You are still likely a little unfocused on the way that it is presented to you still, just like I am, and you still have that tiny voice on the inside which is telling you that you don’t “get” algebra.  It is not that you don’t get it, but that you were not able to comprehend it the way that it was being taught to you.

We are taught things always from another person’s understanding of it. The reason that I know, to this day, that I still do not “get’ algebra is NOT because my friend Kim was not right, but that because my disdain for algebra itself is so great, due to my not “getting it” when I was a youngster, I have developed an aversion to anything mathematical in nature unless it pertains to anything scientific. Yes, I know – science requires a general knowledge of math, and I have a general knowledge of it. And in that general knowledge I have learned a whole lot about science.

It is not that we are not getting it, but that we are not understanding the way to get to where we can “get it.” Once it is that we can focus our thoughts toward our own way of learning things, and once it is that we can grasp onto the idea that there is more than only one way to learn things, this is when we can also train ourselves to be more focused about our focus. Once we can focus, the world and all of her treasures becomes easier to attain for us, both physically and Spiritually.

The reason why is clear – it is not being done your way

I will repeat it – the reason why a lot of us don’t get things that we are supposed to be able to get is because not all of us learns the same way. We each think differently, and because of this we will only be able to focus how we will from our own standpoint and from our own understanding. When we try to force our learning to accommodate someone else’s way of thinking, no matter what it is, unless we are the same kind of thinker as someone else is, we will have a very hard time learning anything. Things of a Spiritual nature demand that we be disciplined in our focus because it is through our focus on those desires which manifests the reality that we are creating for ourselves.

All this time you may have been thinking badly about yourself because you cannot do one thing or another, and the reality is not that you cannot do those things, at least most of them, but that you have to be able to do those things in the manner that you are able to learn them. It is really very simple.

We learn in a specific way, and in a specific pattern, and the way some people teach what they know, including me, comes from their direct learning experience. It is not that your child is dumb at math but that he or she is not understanding it from the point of view of the teacher. It is not that you are some sort of moron when it comes to recalling how to spell a word or how the seed becomes the sprout that becomes the plant, but that your method of learning is what directs your focus, and if your focus is only on knowing how to figure something out someone else’s way, you will know the actual reason for your frustration.

Not just about algebra, but about learning and focusing, period.  To be a Masterful Creator in the painting of your life, you must be able to focus on what it is that you are desirous of, without distraction, without the idea that you don’t “get it,” and with only the full force of that focus with Spirit behind it.

It is simple, yet not so much, but eventually, once you learn to train your focus, everything else seems like a walk in the park

I LOVE YOU ALL !

ROX 

 

 

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Between Us All

Energy does not lie, no matter what

I have written a lot about the energy that is between us, all of us, and right now, the energy is a grand, confusing mixture of sadness and confusion, coupled with the excitement that is the newness which we all know lay waiting for us in our collective future. And it is a big, giant pain in the okole. Sometimes the energy that is between us can frighten us, can make us recognize pains that we only think are ours, but in reality, what is happening when you feel this way is nothing short of awesomeness.

We are all conduits to the energies of other people, namely those who are the closest to us. Today alone I have had a heavy heart which has been filled with sadness, and lately, I am anything but sad. I might be angry, might contemplate going off on someone verbally, but sadness is not something that has really visited me in a little while. I know whose it is, and I know why, and for the life of me, I cannot stop that person’s energy from coming into mine. I have never been able to. There are not too many people whose energy is so much like mine and with whom I am so very close – close enough with them in a familial sense to where no matter where they are on this planet, I know what is happening in their lives based only on the things that I am feeling that I know are not my own.

I have been like this ever since I can recall. When I was a little girl it was a girl named Dora whose feelings I would know, and then the next day there would be a letter in the mailbox from her, and normally it was one of those letters that the very best of friends write to one another that tell in great detail why it is that they are so sad. She knew then what she knows now – I am a conduit for energy flowing to and from others. Then there are the few cousins with whom I share a sibling like bond and who, whenever they are in a pinch, whenever their hearts are breaking, whenever their lives start to go upside down on them, I know it. And like Dora’s letters, it would be through a text that my younger cousin tells me about how he is just feeling isolated and alone. There is the friend who, while in the middle of his own personal hell, and his, alongside two women named Dannie and April, energies are so much like my own that today I knew the feelings that I was feeling a lot earlier today did not belong to me.  I knew that they were and still are a mixture of all of theirs.

It was familiar, the energy was, and it was an overwhelming sadness and a sickening, roller-coaster like energy that is grotesque and eloquent that mingled with my own energies which were, themselves, not the kind that I like hanging onto. Were it not for the saving grace of very good teachers having taught me many months ago how to discern what I am feeling and more, if what I am feeling belongs to me, I would still be the wreck that I was, versus the healed person I am becoming.

I say it a lot – Energy does not lie, because it cannot lie

Energy cannot lie. It is the purest form of the truth. You are not hiding anything from anyone, ever. Not even those who can be counted as clueless dullards can believe that they do not sense things. We all sense things.  

Of course, even as energy cannot lie, this does not mean that the person whose energy is not lying will choose to go with that energy. This is the beauty mixed with the ugliness that is free will. I say it is mixed like this because on one end, the beauty can be that what we sense is correct, but the ugly part is that no matter how right we are about it, if there is someone else involved in the energy exchange, it is still their choice to not go along with what it is that you and whoever else it is knows as the truth.

Energy IS truth. It cannot be hidden for very long and always once it is that the energy is found to be stronger than the will to choose otherwise, whatever is to happen, even when we resist it as much as we can, is going to happen. It is our energy that we should be following, but instead we choose to go with what is the safest, and if we do not choose what is the safest, we choose what is the most familiar. Too many people choose the familiar energies because they have been there before and because they have been through whatever it is that they went through in that particular energy there is a sense of comfort, even if there is no sign of being comfortable.

Familiarity is comfortable

It is. It is more comfortable to our reptilian brains to go where we have gone in the past, and it is because we already know what to expect, and that, my friends, is boring. Of course, the things happening in choosing what we already know to expect is a different story. Those things might be violence, and some of us choose it because we know violence and there is comfort in knowing something, even if it is not something that is great. The comfort factor might come from a place where your own behavior is not the greatest…addictions, perversions, being anti-social on purpose….but as primal creatures we go toward where we have been because we know it, and in knowing anything at all there is a measure of comfort.

It is scary to think that we don’t know everything we need to know about a thing or a person, and we are scared to death to be right about someone when we love them, but this is what that thing between us called energy brings to us. It brings us the comfort of knowing something that we should not know but know. It brings us the edge we need to stay out of the way of things that could be exciting, but equally as dangerous. It brings us the clue that a lot of us just shun for the thing that is comfortable.

And that clue, really, it is priceless. 

The Priceless Nature of the Energies Between Us

I like that I share in an energy with the people who mean the very most to me, and hell yes, all of them know who they are. The energies between us make it so that we know what is going on with one another, even when we cannot be with one another as much as we would like. It makes it so that we are prompted, by one thing or another, by one another, and it is, in some ways, the only way that each of us knows how to reach out to each other without impinging on the things going on that we are each learning.

The Energies between us is what keeps us in line with one another. We are all going through a whole LOT right now. There is one thing in each of our lives that we are all each focused on, and I don’t wanna be an asshole, but I am gonna be, and tell you all and remind myself that, while we are focused on the right things, we are focused on the ugliness about those things, and that is why we each continue to be in the rut that we are, and feeling like this one thing is stuck…like welded together, stuck…but we are not scared of it. It seems like we are, but we are not. I am telling you all now that, really, if you could see things from my side, this is not yours….seriously.

Think about it. Think about it in terms of being an observer to what is happening in the lives of the people, not who we have known the longest, but who we have recently told all of our secrets to, and realize, too, now, that we are who found each other for a specific purpose. It is to share the energies between us.  And also, when I say that this is NOT yours, I mean that you are a part of something bigger going on in the lives of the people closest to you. It is not your weight to bear for them, but it is your energy that is needed so that they realize that they even have to learn that they HAVE the weight to bear, and that takes time and patience.

“Recently” ***

“Recently.”  This for me means within the last decade, if I have been in your life for any significant amount of time and we have been in one another’s company for better than a day, that we are that second set of people. Us, the “within the last ten years” set who have suddenly happened upon each other. You know who you are. And this is what the energy that has always been between us has been for. We are souls who are merely reconnecting, having a new experience with our reunited families of like energies, all collectively coming together to be with each other.

We are supposed to be with each other, and whatever it is in your head that I am to you in that thought and in your life, you are right…yes, indeed, that is who I am and who you think I am.  We are meant to be in the company of one another. The time is now, because we are all no longer stuck there, in last year, or even in last week or last night…that is the past. There is nothing that changes it. You can think about it, remember it, and talk about it, but unless you let it, through your energy and through the starvation that you have been going through in your soul, nothing can make it different.

The future is not yours, seriously. It is not left to fate. The future is there in your head, and there are not a lot of people who can see that picture in your head, but I can “sense” that picture in all of the collective head, and the all of us has one thing in mind, and that one thing is Love. We have found out what we never forgot, but just pushed it aside. We remembered who we were and that is why this hurts us so much. This change that is global hurts us all so much because we are wanting to live our truths, which are nothing at all like the truths which are more familiar, and sometimes, hella more fun.

We are collectively crying out to the Mother Goddess, to please, if we must continue to evolve out of the pain this fast by going through it, give us strength, and salve our pain, even if momentarily. Just as we collectively hurt (and we ARE collectively hurting right this moment….this moment is VERY heavy….) we will collectively heal.

We have what we need to get through this, because we have been refined by the fires of life.

What it takes is all of us…meaning, each other….

I Love You All !

ROX

(***a Divine Message…Blessed Be…)

 

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